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Breaking the Curse

A Memoir of Trauma, Healing, and Italian Witchcraft

by Alex DiFrancesco

Book cover for Breaking the Curse
Book cover for Breaking the Curse

A tour de force of narrative nonfiction, a reimagining of the self-help genre, and a brave memoir about mystical forces, trauma, trans life, and how we must heal ourselves to survive.

In Breaking the Curse, Alex DiFrancesco takes their own crushing experiences of assault, addiction, and transphobic violence as the starting point for a journey to self-reclamation. Reeling in the aftermath of a rape that played out as painfully in public as in private, DiFrancesco begins to pursue spirituality in earnest, searching for an ancestral connection to magic as a form of protection and pathway to transformation. Propelled by a knowledge of the spiritual role of the transgender person in society, Alex winds through Cleveland and Brooklyn and Philly—from rehab and pagan AA meetings and friends’ spare mattresses to tarot readers and books about Italian witchcraft to daily ritual, prayer, altar-making, and folk tradition. In so doing, they begin to not only piece together a way to heal but also call into existence a life that finally feels worth living.

Breaking the Curse weaves spells, blasphemous novenas, and personal memories to imagine a new memoir form. Speaking about trauma does not always take its power away, DiFrancesco reminds us, but one can write their truth so that the hurt no longer fills the whole horizon.

Book cover for Breaking the Curse
Book cover for Breaking the Curse

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“A curse: a solemn utterance intended to invoke a supernatural power. DiFrancesco’s memoir, Breaking the Curse, invokes power and summons the occult’s beauty as touchstones for the reader. It is its own spell, its own grimoire, its own invocation: a séance for souls whose voices are not remembered, not cared for, not HEARD. “In another universe,” DiFrancesco chants—let this be a manifestation for those in communities who need reassurance that their lives and bodies exist and matter, and let DiFrancesco’s words resound as a powerful promise that despite, despite, despite; resilience exists and it is alive within these pages.”

“I see this world as few others do," writes Alex DiFrancesco, and thank goodness for that. In their memoir, Breaking the Curse, DiFrancesco offers readers a mesmerizing vision of this world and the workings of trauma, gender identity and magic within it. A spell-binding work.”

“A phenomenal memoir that excavates deep into emotions, Alex DiFrancesco’s Breaking the Curse is a testament to resilience about belonging and identity. DiFrancesco writes with raw honesty about their struggles and trauma, shame, and violence as well as recovery and hope. There is a whole life assembled in every chapter than some live in a lifetime. At once heartbreaking and shaking with life, Breaking the Curse is brave, powerful, shining a light out of the darkness in a way few books dare to be.”

“In an act of magic and divine intention, DiFrancesco exquisitely recounts the nonlinear process of an extraordinary feat of healing. With a roar of pain that demands acknowledgement, they rise above seemingly insurmountable trauma, bypassing the heart-crushing constraints of community and familial wounds to find ancestral healing, forgiveness, and sacred purpose. Their remarkable capacity to summon truth, self-discovery, and divine connection as an idiosyncratic, independent act of will serves as a powerful source of inspiration for all who have ever felt disconnected from the fundamental human desires we all share: community, family, safety, and spirituality.”

Breaking the Curse takes us to the edge and keeps us there in this beautifully crafted memoir. A detailed and intimate journey that takes us through the misogynistic and transphobic realities women and nonbinary people face when they stand up to power, the system, and their rapists. I felt like I needed to light cedar and sage to honor the words, the story, and the incredible path toward healing. Alex takes us to a deeper place I can only describe as a soul’s passage, recovering from male violence, the culture that protects it, and the wisdom of women and trans people who have known better for centuries. Sometimes magic is needed to heal where mortals fail.”

“Between the people who hurt us and the people we hurt along the way, between falls and recoveries, we have to build our own practices for finding peace. In this generous and magical book on living with trauma—part memoir, part grimoire—Alex DiFrancesco serves as an unflinching guide to that work.”

“Alex DiFracesco's searing account of misdiagnosed trauma, their spiritual trials through harmful systems (family, health, and otherwise), and their emergence emulates post-traumatic growth. Their writing is hauntingly authentic and their metaphors make lasting imprints. Breaking the Curse helps you believe that healing can be both magical and messy, where trauma chooses a path for them and then they manage to forge one with the guidance of their ancestors. It is both profoundly hopeful and menacingly raw.”

Breaking the Curse by Alex DiFrancesco is the account of the author’s descent into their personal circles of hell. Visceral, and relentlessly grim, where Death is their ever-present companion prepared to offer sweet release, but DiFrancesco never loosens their grip on Hope. A triumph of perseverance over adversity, Life over Death. For anyone who has ever felt hopeless, this book is for you. Haunting.”

“With Breaking the Curse, writer and editor Alex DiFrancesco ups the ante on memoirs. In their candid and irreverent voice, DiFrancesco calls on readers to struggle along with them from rape and addiction through tarot, magic and spirituality to security, hope and, ultimately, healing.”

“Alex DiFrancesco is another writer whose work spans styles and formats; this book sees them returning to nonfiction after two forays into speculative and fantastical fiction. . . .Thought-provoking and compelling.”

“Everything. It would have been easy for DiFrancesco to have chosen privacy over vulnerability. To have allowed the comfortable sink of addiction to take them to dissociate. To have stopped speaking out. To have not published their story. But there is magic in using your voice, too, something DiFrancesco knows well. Summoning the courage to string together the right words, to demand to be heard takes an incredible amount of power.”

“Speaking about trauma may not always diminish its power, but writing one’s truth can prevent the pain from overwhelming everything, and this memoir is a great alternative to fiction to read this Pride.”

“DiFrancesco doesn’t claim literal visions, but instead serves up a powerful, metatextual explanation for how visions apply to both the writing of this book and their work in editing. By the end of this powerful memoir, it doesn’t only feel like we’ve witnessed the breaking of a curse; we’ve also been given the tools to chip away at our own.”

“DiFrancesco proves trauma is nonlinear. It is messy and complex. Many memoirs I’ve read from more commercial publishers tend to compress trauma into something flat and malleable, with a tidy, mess-free formulaic arc that lands on a high, often sentimental note. This usually feels gimmicky and inauthentic to me, which is one of the reasons I appreciate DiFrancesco’s fierce candor. They do not force the story into overdone conventions, while also landing on a hopeful note, but in a way that grows from their exploration. This artfully crafted narrative culminates in a way that lives up to the book’s title.”

blog — June 01

Seven Questions with Alex DiFrancesco

We're pleased to share a short interview with Seven Stories author Alex DiFrancesco, whose newest book asks, how do you tell the story of being human in an unfeeling world? A linked collection of speculative short fiction, The Grief Shop follows Gemma, a woman navigating surreal jobs in a near-future dystopia, wherein a cataclysmic event has rendered the population unable to feel emotions "organically."

Gemma must wrestle with the void of indifference. At her many jobs—a grief-infused coffee shop, a boxing gym for pain therapy, a graveyard, etc.—she encounters a range of eccentrics struggling to survive in a world where grief, ecstasy, suffering, and joy are commodities for some to purchase and for others to exploit. Gemma’s path is one of glimmering possibilities, ones with feelings she may not understand or accept.

Along with The Grief Shop, Alex DiFrancesco is the author of the dystopian novel All City, the story collection Transmutation, and the memoir Breaking the Curse. They are the winner of an Ohio Arts Council Individual Excellence Award for 2022, and their novel All City was the first awards finalist by a transgender author for the Ohioana Book Awards in its eighty-year history. They served as an assistant editor for Sundress Publications in Tennessee, and edited LGBTQIA+ non-fiction for Jessica Kingsley Publishers. Their work has appeared in Tin House, Electric Literature, Pacific Standard, Eater, and Vol. 1 Brooklyn, among others. DiFrancesco lives in Philadelphia.


The stories in The Grief Shop take place in the wake of a global tragedy, which only accelerated an all-consuming nihilism that your characters then grapple with. This is a world that feels both vaguely removed and, in many ways, innately parallel to our own. I’m wondering how you see The Grief Shop in regards to its elements of realism versus its more dystopian aspects? Did you struggle with how and when to balance familiarity with discombobulation? 

I started writing The Grief Shop in 2022, shortly after the COVID-19 lockdown. I wanted to make it a direct reaction to that tragedy, but as I kept writing, tragedies kept accumulating in the world around me. Rising fascism. The genocide in Palestine. The war in Ukraine. The climate. Eventually, it became clear that "the tragedy" had to be a blank in the book because it was important for me for readers to be able to plug in their biggest tragedy from all the many, many choices. Like any of my dystopian work, this novel is firmly based in reality, with just a little "what if-ing" and peeking down the corridor of what could possibly come. I use my imagination from the platform of the elements of reality that are most inspiring.

Your previous novels, Transmutation and All City, heavily featured both transgender and gender-queer characters. In contrast, transness isn’t an explicit focal point in The Grief Shop. Did this change how you approached writing The Grief Shop and its characters? Are there ways that you interpret The Grief Shop as a queer or queer-adjacent narrative?

The main character, Gemma, is a queer character, though it's not really a focal point of the book. When I was writing All City (which I started writing 13 years ago), there was a dearth of trans and genderqueer characters in literature, and it was important for me to portray them in climate change fiction. That novel also has a sort of "guns blazing" approach to queerness and radical politics. I think my need to be so explicit about such things is still there, just in a different form.

In the story “The Bad Neo-Dadaist,” we’re introduced to a group of artists who solely create nonsensical art pieces using modern culture. Xander, a recurring character throughout The Grief Shop, refers to the content of their art as “Replications, AI shit, nonsensical memes…” Can you say a little bit about how you came up with the idea for the Neo-Dadaists? What role do you see them playing alongside your other characters?

The original Dadaist movement was a reaction to World War I and its atrocities. Dadaism was pretty nonsensical, though firmly based in leftist politics and anti-war sentiments. So, the inspiration for the "Neo-Dadaists" in the book (I put this in quotes because there was an actual Neo-Dadaist movement in the '50s and '60s) was all the nonsense and none of the politics, or hope for a better future, or sincere lampooning of capitalism, or anything that mattered. Just nonsense devoid of meaning. In this world where meaning is something some people, like Gemma, are searching for, the Neo-Dadaists are rejecting it entirely. Except, of course, the Neo-Dadaist Ezra, who finds meaning in everything.

Despite the pervasive numbness Gemma experiences, she’s still beholden to the basic biological necessities of her body. At the end of “Tragedy’s Prophet,” Gemma has a muted emotional reaction to the death of her mother, and instead only feels a “a little gnawing hunger starting to grow in my body” which, she notes, is her sign to go and make dinner. It feels to me like The Grief Shop is partially an exploration into what happens when our mental processes become severed from our physical ones. Was this something you set out to explore when writing the book? What do you feel is important about Gemma’s, and the other The Grief Shop characters, physical and mental divide?

Yes, this was something I consciously set out to explore. At one point in the book, some characters are wondering what they have left to motivate them — morals, ethics, biological drives? And Xander notes that eating and fucking are things that people will always want to do, even if life seems meaningless.

Connie Converse plays a large role in the ending of The Grief Shop; did you originally plan to include Converse in the book when you began writing? What impact has she, and her music, had on your own life?

Connie Converse is a folk musician who's probably best known for vanishing without a trace. I've always loved her music and her legend, but there was something more that motivated me to include her. It has to do with hero-worship of artists, who are, at the end of the day, just humans who happen to make good art. I think this line of thought arose for me because I spend a lot of time reading Nick Cave's Red Hand Files newsletter, where he responds to fan questions. Sometimes his answers are beautiful, and sometimes they're just atrocious, and it really made me think a lot about what an "art hero" is. So Connie Converse, in the book, is Ezra's art hero, and one who can really do no wrong since she ejected herself from the public eye long ago and had been missing ever since. But what Ezra discovers is similar to what I discovered from reading Nick Cave's newsletter — artists are just kinda average people, with opinions and thoughts you may or may not agree with, not people to put on a pedestal and idolize. They can't save us. They're not built to be heroes. They're just people who happen to make art. And you can find whatever meaning you need to in them and their work, but the fact remains that they're just people who make art, not anyone who can save us.

Are there any books in the Seven Stories backlist that you were thinking of while writing The Grief Shop? Or are there any writers whose work you drew from throughout the writing process? 

Some of my favorite SSP backlist books are Chavisa Woods's Things to Do When You're Goth in the Country, Luis Negron's Mundo Cruel, and Youseff Rakah's The Crocodiles. I don't know that they were a direct inspiration for this book, but they're books that have stayed with me since I first read them, and which I come back to in my mind often, so I suppose they probably affect my aesthetics, if nothing else!

Do you have any thoughts or hopes for how readers, whether old or new, might respond to the book? 

I'm always hoping that at least one feral weirdo will see themselves in my work and realize there is a place for their work out there, too. 

Alex DiFrancesco

ALEX DIFRANCESCO is the author of the dystopian novel All City, the story collection reflecting trans realities Transmutation, and the memoir Breaking the Curse (2024). About their debut story collection, Patrick Cottrell wrote in The New York Times: “At the affective core of Transmutation is the question of how we can offer shelter for one another’s pain, real and imagined.” They are the winner of an Ohio Arts Council Individual Excellence Award for 2022, and their novel All City was the first awards finalist by a transgender author for the Ohioana Book Awards in its eighty-year history. They served as an assistant editor for Sundress Publications in Tennessee, and edited LGBTQIA+ non-fiction for Jessica Kingsley Publishers. Their work has appeared in Tin House, Electric Literature, Pacific Standard, Eater, and Vol. 1 Brooklyn, among others. DiFrancesco lives in Philadelphia.